While preparing to write this post, I was thinking whether turning twenty-two is worth writing about. Considering the most valued birthday celebrations have already passed me by.
But you know what, every year is important and the lessons I’ve learnt and the experiences that are moulding me as I grow are every bit as important as the year that preceded.
Being twenty-one has been an adventure, I have made some memories that I will hold dear for years to come. I partied, traveled, bought a house & got engaged! What a year!
Now I feel there is some pressure to keep this momentum going, like what is going to happen next? What big life change am I going to dive into before I turn 23?
I’m not sure where this sense of pressure comes from, perhaps my own drive to make everything ‘perfect’. It may also be my competitive nature to always one up myself.
Instead of diving forward I really want to focus on the life I have built and find calm in the joys that surround me and push out the negatives. As difficult as this may be, with all the crazy, I need to force myself to take a breath.
I’m unsure whether I’m articulating this well enough, but the general gist is that my experiences as a young adult have been fuelled by a need to one-up a younger version of myself, whilst not a bad form of motivation, results in pressure to continue doing so.
I do wonder what the next year will bring me but I hope I can take time to take in and cherish the wonder around me.
I have been very MIA lately and the reason being is that I traveled overseas, the United States & Canada to be precise. Alex and I planned this trip over a year ago so we have been pumping ourselves up for such a long time. So if you want to know a little more about our trip + some pics, keep on reading.
First stop – New York City, NY, United States – This was Alex’s first time to the big apple and it definitely did not disappoint. After the approx. 30 hours of flying, we finally made it to our hotel, the Kimpton Muse Hotel. It was the perfect location for us to squeeze in as much of NYC in the two days we had there. We did a lot of the touristy things, Times Square, Rockefeller Center, 5th Avenue, Central Park, Brooklyn Bridge, National History Museum and much more. One of my highlights was the food day I planned, which started at Katz Deli then went through Williamsburg in Brooklyn, where we stopped at Joe’s Pizza and Milk Bar! By far the biggest highlight of NYC, let alone our entire trip, was going to see Hamilton on Broadway. I tried not to cry, but after fangirling about this show for over a year, I happy cried more times than I can remember.
Following these crazy days in NYC, we joined our tour and headed off to Boston, which was a gorgeous city with a lot of history. Things sped up exponentially after this, we then went to Quebec City, Montreal, Ottawa, Toronto, Niagara Falls, Harrisburg, Washington D.C. & Philadelphia.
Here were some of the highlights (in no particular order):
Red Sox v Blue Jays Baseball game in Toronto
Montreal Food Tour
American History Museum in D.C.
We had such a crazy time, and met some amazing people along the way but are glad to be home and back into the swing of things…but I’m sure that won’t last long.
I have to admit I am a little nervous posting this, I don’t think I have ever posted a photo without my hair washed or without makeup, so be kind. This is as bare as I can get without getting naked, I mean I just washed my face and I’ve been doing housework all day so my hair is a mess but I want to share my skin story with you all and the best way to preface that is a with a clear picture of how my skin actually looks.
There’s no easy way to describe my skin other than complicated. Just like most other young women out there, I’ve had my struggle with acne, however, I wish acne was the only problem I’ve had to struggle through. As you can tell from the picture, I have some unnecessary texture as a result of psoriasis, which during autumn/winter is my biggest concern. So I have the joy of dealing with my leftover acne from my late teenage years, hormonal acne (yay!) and the itchiest and flakiest patches of skin ever.
I’ve had psoriasis for as long as I can remember, however, for the most part of my life it has been contained to my scalp and had never seen the light of day. That was until a few years ago when it starting making its way onto my face, which is seriously the hardest thing to hide and looks like death in real life. I get it the worse around the sides of my face, my eyebrows and around my mouth and I spend a lot of time avoiding ripping the skin off my face, which learned early ACTUALLY makes it worse.
So I could continue bitching, but I think you get the gist, I have a complicated combination skin type that causes me different problems when the seasons change.
When it comes to skincare, I do invest quite a bit and try out different things all the time and at the moment the hype is around using organic and natural products (LUSH!!) as they don’t target any of my issues specifically but ensure my skin is clean and fresh and most importantly well moisturised.
I’ll go into more detail in a later post on my current routine, however, I wanted to write this post to reference to when I review skincare products and so I won’t have to vent every time and also to share something personal in hope that someone might relate to these struggles.
As mentioned in my last post, I have been super MIA lately because I got engaged!!! I feel like there is so much to catch you up on but all everyone seems to want to know is how did he do it. Now that we have been engaged for about 3 weeks I have probably retold this story about 20 times (maybe even more!). So it’s nice to finally get to write it all out and have it published.
Friday 7th April
Here’s some context.
We were going to a family catch up on Friday evening and all week I had been looking forward to Friday drinks so Alex had agreed to be the designated driver so I could have a few with our family. So you can say I was a little taken aback when I drove home on Friday night to his car, not in the driveway!!! I called several times and honestly thought he had forgotten and left without me. Also, the house looked locked up, all the shutters were closed, lights off etc.
I was wrong.
I walked up the stairs to the front door and saw that it was UNLOCKED!!
Opened the door and was nearly scared to death by my housemate in near darkness, who said that Alex had a surprise for me.
Leading from the front door to our dining table was a pathway of candles and inside this pathway was our love story in photographs. From our very first date at the Brisbane Botanical Gardens over three and a half years ago to our recent trip to Thailand in December.
Once I get to the dining table I see another photo of the two of us, with a note on top saying “I am so grateful for this one, now turn it over”. On the other side was a declaration of love that brought me to tears. At the end of his gorgeous words, I had to turn around. And you guessed it. There. He. Was. On. One. Knee.
I cannot remember what he said because I started crying, but of course, I said yes immediately and without hesitation.
Once my crying and shaking had calmed down to only slightly audible, he decided to tell me that the trip he booked for us at the end of April was actually that weekend (8-9th April) and that he was taking me to dinner in Maleny and we were staying in a suite in Caloundra.
The rest of the night was a blur of champagne, tears, laughter, love and the sparkle of a diamond.
I’ve had some time to calm down in the last couple of days with all the public holidays, but my head is filled with the joy of wedding planning. Alex and I plan on having a long engagement and are aiming to get married in Spring 2019, so I have plenty of time to save and plan for our special day. So be prepared for a few (maybe more than a few) posts relating to wedding planning.
There are not that many ways to excuse being MIA for this long, but I hope I’m forgiven because I unexpectedly got engaged in the past week!!!! This is not the only reason I’ve been away, we also had the crazy rain and flooding from Cyclone Debbie, which caused a whole shit storm (*ha see what I did) of problems for both Alex and I. Also following our surprise engagement, Alex took me away for an entire weekend!
I will make a post all about his proposal since I honestly cannot shut up about it, it was literally perfect. Also, look forward to watching me plan my wedding and everything else in-between.
Life is a pretty crazy whirlwind right now, but I’m so happy with the direction that we are going.
Don’t know whether it was luck or the world trying to give me some silver lining, but this week the bi-annual Priceline 40% Cosmetics sale fell on my pay day!
Now as you may now, I just bought a house so I didn’t go crazy but this was a good excuse to try out new products and have more of the essentials in my collection. e.g. foundation, because I was literally scrapping the bottle to get ready for work.
So here’s what I bought (left to right):
L’Oreal Color Riche Lipstick in Naomi’s Delicate Rose
Australis Don’t Sweat it Water Resistant Foundation in Beige
Maybelline Fit Me Matte + Poreless Foundation in 115 Ivory
NYX Liquid Suede Lipstick in Tea & Cookies
NYX Above & Beyond Full Coverage Concealer in Fair
NYX Wonder Pencil in Light
I’ve only had these products for a few days, but I have tried them all out at least once so I can note some first impressions, however, I have a feeling my thoughts on these products may change the more that I use them.
With regards to the Fit Me foundation, even though I got it in the Matte + Poreless formula, I still found myself pouring out the oil by midday, which was way more than normal and I even used a primer and set with translucent powder. I’m going to keep trying this one out and find if there’s a way for it to work for me.
Thus far, I’m blown away with the Australis Don’t Sweat It foundation since I didn’t expect it to actually last all day and stay matte (for the most part!) and the coverage is also quite impressive.
Not much to say about the NYX products other than I’ve had my eye on the Tea & Cookies cream lipstick for a while now and I’m really glad that it’s part of my collection. The color is gorgeous and it lasts well but not as long as I would expect for a liquid lipstick. The wonder pencil has heaps of uses but I’ve only used it for a waterline highlight and it sure does brighten up your eyes and make you look more awake which is a flippin’ blessing for someone like me. Unfortunately, there were no testers for the NYX concealer so I just picked the second lightest shade out of habit with other brands and foundation shades but it ended up being too light. However, there are still heaps of uses for a concealer that’s too light, like carving out eyebrows and fixing eyeliner & lipstick mistakes.
I’m really liking the L’Oreal lipstick because I don’t actually own a sheer lipstick and I think the color of this one is stunning and simply perfect for work.
Overall I’m pretty happy with the products I got and will endeavor to do a more in-depth review on these once I’ve taken them all for a ride.
Now I had planned on setting aside some time this weekend to write a more interesting post, but unfortunately, life is life and gets in the way.
To bring you up to speed, I was recently told that I have a severe iron deficiency and the results of this deficiency can make me more fatigued than I ever thought possible. For the last month, my doctor has had me on supplements, but this week hit hard. I was using all of my forcible energy to stay awake and it became painful to be awake. I liken the feeling to when you wake up in the middle of the night and start walking and your mind is waking up but your body is still asleep. I started to worry that I would fall or trip while working and thus, headed back to the doctors.
Since I work full time and have quite a lengthy commute, and not to mention the fact that I pretty much collapse when I come home, my weekends are my prime time to get anything done. This meant expending all of my limited energy as it was to going to doctors and even the hospital! eek! I’m fine, just exhausted. I left the hospital pretty quickly and met this fantastic nurse who gave me some great advice.
Hopefully, my iron levels will sort themselves out soon, because boy would I like to actually feel like a 21 year old!
This post is probably sounding like the longest excuse for a lack of a good read, but I don’t think I would’ve been capable of publishing anything more worthwhile whilst being this fatigued. I hope you forgive me.
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There are people who read a lot, there are people who don’t read at all unless they are required to and then there’s me (and probably a few others like me) who like to always have a book to read, whether it’s fiction or non-fiction. I don’t spend every free moment reading a book but I do take advantage of the free time I have available. Since starting my new job about a month ago my reading volume has significantly increased because I now ride the train for two hours daily, which means a lot of dedicated reading time. I recently finished reading The Circle by Dave Eggers, which I started reading for two reasons, I enjoy modern science fictions books where most elements feel modern day, however, there are a few that bring to light technology that is the creation of pure imagination. Secondly, because this book is being turned into a movie starring goddess Emma Watson and Tom Hanks, later this year and I prefer to read the book before watching the movie adaption where I can.
I will split this review into a general overview and SPOILERS sections so that those who want to read the book/watch the movie can still do so without the plot and ending being ruined.
NO SPOILERS SECTION
The Circle by Dave Eggers follows Mae Holland who just landed a job at the biggest company on the planet, thanks to her best friend Annie. The Circle is an international company which draws parallels with Google due to its massive integration with everyday actions and business transactions and they have recently transformed the ways of e-commerce and social media to promote a more transparent way of living for businesses and consumers alike. Mae is more than thrilled to have left her small town utility job to work within this global machine. Due to their outnumbered sources of income, the physical premises includes everything you could think of for a small community and more and is completely free-of-charge for their employees. The Circle promotes transparency and connectivity amongst peers and colleagues and encourages employees to take advantage all that the campus (workplace) has to offer.
Mae herself isn’t a very dense character and in my opinion is more of a figurehead to showcase the wonders and ideas behind the Circle’s innovations to readers, since even though the book is about how the technology interferes with Mae’s life, family & friends, there is more of a strong focus on how the inventions actually impact everyday people, so that it easier to picture yourself and how you would interact and respond to them. Mae’s family consists of her mother and father and they are struggling quite a lot due to her father’s recent MS diagnosis. Her mother is constantly battling with health care providers to ensure her father’s safety and health, but is often most shafted by the system. Another major character is Mae’s ex-boyfriend, Mercer, who is a down to earth guy who treasures those he loves and doesn’t see the value in a lot of the technology that the Circle is introducing into society.
Now I can go into detail about every innovation they introduce in the book but that is part of the adventure of reading this one yourself. The general gist is that there are A LOT of them and they are the driving force within the book’s plot. The more that are released the more you question whether or not they are actually beneficial to society and whether or not they are completely tossing personal privacy out the window.
!!!!SPOILERS!!! DO NOT READ AHEAD IF YOU WANT TO SEE THE MOVIE / READ THE BOOK
Starting out in this book is surreal, you are diving face first into the future of humanity and into this utopia that from my marketing degree background, gets me thinking of an equilibrium between businesses and individuals. BUT. IT. GOES. TOO. FAR. I think this is the point and I know that by about two-thirds in I was feeling very uncomfortable about actually liking this utopia. Privacy goes out the window. The safety of nations goes out the window. Mental health for students is disregarded. And a capitalist monopoly is born.
All the while shits starts to be revealed that maybe all this transparency is bad, Mae has no freaking clue and is just accepting every damn thing that the Circle releases, even when the health, wellbeing, and safety of her loved ones is compromised. She pretty much cuts ties with her family and disregards the well-being of her best friend. She denies the wishes of her ex-boyfriend and attempts to coerce him into being like her and adopting the life that the Circle promotes.
I will refrain myself from rambling on because there were a lot of elements that got a rise out of me while reading but I know that everyone will have a different stance on privacy, social media and the idea that transparency is good if you have nothing to hide.
What are your thoughts, do you think transparency is good for those who have nothing to hide or do you believe that whilst it is good to share with others online, choice and privacy are huge concerns that matter to the everyday individual?
Let me know in the comments down below.
P.S. I can’t wait to see the movie and kind of hope they change the ending.
Comments Off on First Impressions & Review: Sally Hansen’s Miracle Gel Polish – Mauve-olous – 244
For all the ladies (and gents) out there who love having their nails painted but hate smudges, chipping, that dreaded cleanup and the time it normally takes for the polish and top coat to dry, I’m sure you get how frustrating it can be if your beautifully painted nails only last a day or two. This always seems to be the case with me, so I endeavor to find methods that won’t kill my nails and will also ensure that the polish stays put for a decent amount of time.
Now, I’ve tried nearly every type of salon nails; polish, acrylic, gel & SNS, and I absolutely love SNS the most by far. I’ll do a review on why I prefer this salon method the most, but the general gist is that it lasts forever!!!
So Kaitlyn, why aren’t you just sticking to SNS?
Well, if you read my last post, you’ll know I just bought my first home! Yay! Woot Woot!
The biggest let down to this huge life milestone is having to cut a lot of luxury services and products off my budget, so getting my nails done once a fortnight (or even every three weeks) just won’t work right now. Maybe later down the track when my life and finances are all sorted and organized, i can get back into the habit. (jk, that’ll never happen, right?)
So I’m back to painting and maintaining my own nails. Sigh.
I’ve tried the Sally Hansen miracle gel polishes before and remember liking it and since I had a gift card that was set to expire for Priceline, I decided that today was better a day than any to feel like a put together millennial woman and have painted nails. I love soft pink polishes, they tend to be my go-to colour, alongside violets and other light purples so naturally this shade jumped off the shelf and into my basket.
I’m going to detail my first impression as well as a review after a few days of wear so that you have a decent understanding of how lasting this polish is.
To be honest, I haven’t painted my own nails in what seems like forever, what with buying a house, Christmas, changing jobs and also traveling overseas, who has time to paint their nails?!? In the time between the last time I painted my nails and today (Sunday 26th Feb) my only bottle of base coat had gone bad 🙁 So luckily the Sally Hansen Miracle Gel claims to work without one. Yay! For the top coat, I used Seche Vite and although this stuff smells like you’re dying your hair in the 00’s while freshly painting an unventilated room, it does the jobs and drys super quickly.
I’m a big fan of Sally Hansen’s wide brush, it normally means I can paint a coat of nail polish with one movement, even on my thumb nail.
The colour looked good even with just one coat but needed two to deepen and intensify the shade. Now there is a Sally Hansen Miracle Gel top coat that compliments the range and gives that gel gloss, but because I’m impatient, I used the Seche Vite which does give a shine but I doubt is as glossy as the Sally Hansen one, which I haven’t tried.
For both hands including drying time, the application took me approximately 30 mins. I could have been a little quicker but I was watching This is Us while doing them and started tearing up, which may have resulted in the process taking a little longer.
Now a couple hours later, I have no smudges or chips, but I’ll follow this up in a couple of days and see how it wears.
…A couple days later (Thursday 2nd March)
Woah, time flies. Well, I have to say I’m impressed but not swept off my feet. The polish has lasted really well considering my usual track record and I didn’t see the first chip until Tuesday, which is a record for myself.
As you can see in the pics, the chips are only on my right hand (the dominant one) and my left hand (the lazy one) is still in pretty good nick.
With such good color payoff and an impressive lasting power, I can definitely say I will purchase more colors in the line and will endeavor to keep my nails painted for the foreseeable future, but we’ll see how long that will last.
Would love to hear some feedback! Comment below with your nail hacks for making them last longer, or let me know if you’ve tried these polishes before and can recommend a new shade.
Curious Eh? Well here’s the run down. Tulips and Tequila (formerly known as OhhKaye) is a beauty, lifestyle and everything in between blog, pretty much anything I think is worth sharing with the world.
The name came from two of my favourite things. My love for tulips started at a young age when I visited a national flower show called Floriade. With the amazing array of florals that were on display the only flowers that stole my attention were the yellow tulips, and even though I live in one of the weirdest climates in the world, my family and friends still seem to be able to surprise me with a few every year on my birthday. Now tequila. Some people love it, hate it or even love it hate it. I simply love it. It never was my drink of choice when I was a little younger but now that I can indulge in some decent (100% agave) tequila, I think it is simply the best way to unwind after a long week.
The other loves of my life include my boyfriend of 3 years, Alex. We recently have hit a few life milestones with each other including buying our first home, going on our first international holiday together and adopting our gorgeous, yet vivacious puppy Checkers. Our life has drastically changed in these last couple of months and I’ve found myself wanting to find a creative outlet to brain dump my miscellaneous thoughts or the ones that Alex doesn’t really want me to ramble on about. I mean he can only listen to me talk about how important eye shadow blending is, right? Hence, the birth of Tulips & Tequila.
I’m also a massive fan of pop culture, film & television and you’ll most likely find me binge watching tv shows on Netflix in my spare time. I’ve always had a passion for the weird and wonderful on and off-screen and I love finding and sharing all the things that make me laugh, cry or even yell at the tv.
Look forward to reading my ramblings about this, that and whatever and I hope that if you made it to the end of the post, I’ll see you at the next one.